If you change the way you love your woman, the woman you love changes. Right?
Right. The mind is everything. Your mind is powerful. What you think, you become. And when you change the way you think about things, those things change.
There’s an entire lifetime of learning of how important your thoughts are. Your thoughts affect your world. When you change your thoughts, the things you think of change. When you change the way you see things, the things you see change. If you change the way you love someone, that someone you loved changes.
We are what we think.
For as you think from you heart, so you are (Proverbs 23:7). The thoughts I have in my heart, deep down inside, that’s who I am. And we keep that heart like a treasure - protected.
I've learned that my heart retains my words, and I keep (protect) those words, because I live from them (Proverbs 4:4). Our hearts retain, or keep, our words. What we say and think is in our heart.
Proverbs 4:20-23 reads, "My son, attend to my words; incline thine ear unto my sayings. Let them not depart from thine eyes; keep them in the midst of thine heart. For they are life unto those that find them, and health to all their flesh. Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life."
Out of the heart are the issues of life.
We guard our hearts. We are alert to the thoughts we allow in our hearts, because out of the heart, the innermost part of our mind, comes the issues of life.
Take a simple truth, such as 2+2=4. That's in our minds. Once we learn it, it stays there - forever. That’s a truth.
But what about lies?
What if someone says something bad about you? Does that stay in your mind, in your heart, forever? It’s like salt in unbaked brownie batter. Ever hear the story about brownie salt? Let's say you have a chocolate brownie in your hand. You're about to eat it. But, by mistake, you dump a bunch of salt on the brownie. What do you do? Is the brownie ruined? No. Just brush the salt off the brownie, and you're good to go. Tastes great.
Now, assume you're mixing the brownie mix, stirring it with a spoon in a bowl. And the salt spills into the mix. What happens after you bake the brownies? Take bite of that brownie, and you'll taste the salt. Yuck! It's completely ruined, and there's nothing you can do. That's because the salt is stuck in there. It's too late.
Now, you're mind, especially the minds of our children, is like a brownie mix.
Don't let salt (untruths, lies, fear, worry, doubt, suffering, etc.) spill into it. Guard your mix. Guard your thoughts, your heart, your mind. For most adults, our minds are already baked. We can just brush it off. But for some, especially our children, it's too late. The salt is in there - forever.
Henry David Thoreau
Henry wrote, "As a single footstep will not make a path on the earth, so a single thought will not make a pathway in the mind. To make a deep physical path, we walk again and again. To make a deep mental path, we must think over and over the kind of thoughts we wish to dominate our lives."
So, be careful with what you think about. If you think it over and over, it could change your life forever.
When we change the way we see things, the things we see change.
We have to change the way we think.
I’m not talking about meditation and emptying the mind. I'm not talking about closing your eyes and chanting. I love yoga. I love getting quiet. But that's not what I'm talking about.
I’m talking about change.
A better way of saying it would be to RENEW your mind. Change means to take this and make it that, something completely different from its original. Renew means to make something new, to re-new, or make new again, fresh again, and strong again. Renewing the mind means to restore it to its original, good state.
How do I restore my mind when I'm faced something negative or challenging?
Well, God has not given us a spirit of fear, but rather, God gives power, unconditional love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7). We have the power to replace any negative with spiritual positives.
We can have power.
We can have love.
We can have a sound mind.
We can do this. We can renew our minds to this truth and make it deep mental path by walking it again and again, as Henry wrote (see above).
Ephesians 4:22-24 reads, "That ye put off concerning the former conversation the old man, which is corrupt according to the deceitful lusts; And be renewed in the spirit of your mind; And that ye put on the new man, which after God is created in righteousness and true holiness." In those verses, we read that we put on the new man, which after God is created [or created in God’s image] in righteousness and true holiness. So, after putting on the new man (by renewing my mind), I’m created in God’s image.
Holy crap! That's powerful. Read that again.
We're created in God's image after we put on "the new man." How? By renewing our minds to God. But what is the image of God? And who is God?
Is God a man? No.
Is God a woman? No.
Is God an old man with a long gray beard and bushy eyebrows, waving his finger, and always mad? No.
Is God Jesus? No.
Is God religion and vice versa? Certainly not.
So, who or what is God, and what's the image of God in which I'm created (or renewed). Well, actually, God is what the bible says God is.
The bible says that God is:
That is the image of God. So, when we put off the old man, when we renew our spirit of our minds, and we put on the new man, we see ourselves as created (created anew) in God's image.
Think of an old shirt.
Take off your old shirt, and put on a new one. Clothe yourself in a new image, an image of God.
The woman above is simply helping her man change his mind.
... and we're back.
2 Corinthians 3:18 reads, “And all of us, as with unveiled face, [because we] continued to behold [in the Word of God] as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are constantly being transfigured into His very own image in ever increasing splendor and from one degree of glory to another; [for this comes] from the Lord [Who is] the Spirit."
What does all that mean?
We hold what we believe in in our hands, like a mirror. Maybe it's the bible, spiritual principles, new age enlightenment, teaching of Buddha. It doesn't matter. Whatever it is... it reflects our open mind, and we see who we truly are. Your believing is like a mirror.
With the God in our mind, we are renewed in the image of God.
So, what do we believe in? What do we have holding in our hands? What is image reflecting in our mirror?
Mahatma Gandhi said, “Your beliefs become your thoughts, your thoughts become your words, your words become your actions, your actions become your habits, your habits become your values, tour values become your destiny.”
The Buddha said, “The mind is everything. What you think, you become.”
So, again, what do we believe in? What do we think about? If you can't think of anything, Philippians 4:8 provides some guidance. It reads, "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things." Fix your mind upon these things.
Colossians 3:10 reads, "And have put on the new man, which is renewed in knowledge after the image of him [God] that created him [you]."
When we renew our minds, we put off the old, and put on the new.
We put on the new man and clothe ourselves with the new spiritual self, which is forever in the process of being renewed in knowledge after the image of God that created you. When you renew your mind, you understand more fully about God in whose image you were created.
When you renew your mind, you see yourself a bit differently. Don't you?
And, when you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. Yes?
Repeat that in your mind. You see yourself as a reflection of the image of God. How can that be? Remember. Remember who God is (see above).
Hebrew 4:12 reads, "For the word of God is quick, and powerful, and sharper than any two-edged sword, piercing even to the dividing asunder of soul and spirit, and of the joints and marrow, and is a discerner of the thoughts and intents of the heart." What God speaks is alive and full of power. It's active and energizing. It is sharper than any two-edged sword, penetrating to the dividing line of the breath of life (soul) and [the immortal] spirit, and of joints and marrow, the deepest parts of our nature, exposing and sifting and revealing the very thoughts and purposes of the heart. God’s Word helps me renew my mind, because it is so effective & powerful.
So, to what do you renew your mind? What do I think about?
How does the bible help me in this? Let me share a few verses that I keep in my renewed mind.
In Ephesians 2:10, I am God’s workmanship. In 1 Corinthians 6:19, my body is a temple. 1 Thessalonians 5:5 says I am a child of light. Psalms 139:14 says I am wonderfully made. Philippians 4:19 says all my needs shall be supplied. Ephesians 6:11 says I wear the whole armor of God. Ephesians 3:12 says I am bold and confident. Colossians 1:22 says that I am without blemish. Galatians 5:1 says I am free. Psalms 18:29 says I can run through a troop and leap over a wall. Romans 8:37 says I am more than a conqueror in every situation. Philippians 4:13 says that I can do all things. Joshua 1:9 says God is with me wherever I go. That’s some powerful stuff! That's what I think about. God helps me renew my mind.
In summary, we learned about renewing our minds. When we change the way we see things, the things we see change. And what we believe is like a mirror, reflecting who we really are. So, I encourage you to be careful in what you think about and what you believe in. For the thoughts you keep in your heart, that’s who you really are.
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