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The Protector

8/1/2014

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Men protect women and children, especially members of their own family.

Man was created with a physically large and strong body, built for physical burden and endurance. Mature men are courageous in protecting and defending their family. It's instinctual. A king will defend and shield from harm those who need such care.

While learning how to be a protector, a man will grow in maturity. It's more than just a responsibility. It's an opportunity to grow, to mature. To protect women and children requires a development of strength and manliness. And when a man is unable to serve in this way, he suffers.

Historically

Historically, to protect meant to literally provide protection against things that would cause harm or create difficulties, such as the outside elements and predators, to find food to prevent starvation, to create warmth and keep away the cold. Today, I adjust the thermostat. It's not really the same.

3 Threats & Dangers

Where's the courage and the physical stuff? Well, it's still there and needed, but the threats and dangers are different. There are still outside elements and predators. They are just different. They are: 
  1. sexual assault; 
  2. spiritual evil; and 
  3. hard elements. 

Let's learn about what they are.


Sexual assault. Sex is all over the place, particularly in the media. Children are being bombarded about sex from all kinds of sources. Shouldn't you teach be first in teaching them about it? A man is responsible for seeing that his wife and daughters understand the physical threats of assault. They must be prepared to avoid situations that would make them vulnerable.

Spiritual evil. A leader guards and protects against not only the physical things of this world, but also, and more importantly, the spiritual things. There's a war going on -- a spiritual one. Not everyone can see it. But it's happening.

Open your eyes. See what's really going on. You need to be the watchdog that guards against these outside spiritual influences, which can corrupt the mind and spirit of anyone in your home, under you blanket of protection. These evil influences include: 
  • negativism; 
  • disorder;
  • slovenliness; and 
  • anything that interferes with connecting with God, your spirit, or source. 

Anything that disrupts order, calm and peace in your mind is a spiritual evil. Anything that bumps you out of alignment and harmony with the Creator, the Spirit, the Universe.

Your home should be a place of peace, love and tranquility. Be aware when your home becomes a place of disorder, confusion and loud voices.

Hard elements. Hard elements are the obvious things such as: cold, excessive heat, bad weather, rough terrain, floods, mean dogs, spiders, etc. You get the picture. I often am asked to kill that spider, or walk with someone down into the basement where it's dark. Any bump in the night falls under my domain. I'm the protector.

Conclusion

A mature man protects his family. You are the protector. Be one.

Learn more about being a better husband, father, and man. 

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