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The Goal in the Game of Life

11/29/2015

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We've all made lists of goals to accomplish. Yes? Your list may have goals of personal achievements, financial means, or a satisfying relationship. But what would be the significance of such list? 

In this article, we'll learn that:
  • the goal of the game of life is to enjoy the present moment, as you are, regardless of the situation you're in;
  • the quality of your life is critically dependent upon what you think and what you believe; and 
  • our sufficiency is not of ourselves. 

List of Goals in Life

Everything on that list of goals comes with promises that, once accomplished, would bring us joy, satisfaction, and a future time when we could really enjoy our lives. But this is just wishful thinking. Hopeful thinking. Because goals do not bring joy, peace, satisfaction and love to our lives.

Q: What does bring those things? A: Our spiritual walk in life. Our believing action in God. 


Our minds are everything. What we think, we are. In Proverbs 23:7, it's written, "For as she thinketh in her heart, so is she." It doesn't matter how successful you are or who's in your bed, you won't enjoy anything in your life if you're mind is out of control. 

Goal in Life

It's important to have goals in life. Yes, of course. I have goals that include good personal health, mature children, and good relationships. But people tend to search for happiness without understanding the rules of the game of life that we're playing. And the goal of the game for me, and for each of us, is to enjoy the present moment as myself, as I am, regardless of the situation. 

That's the goal. Now that you know the goal of the game, let's learn a bit about how to play the game. It starts with your mind.

Sam Harris in his book Waking Up says:
  • How we pay attention to the present moment largely determines the character of our experience and, therefore, the quality of our lives. Mystics and contemplatives have made this claim for ages, but a growing body of scientific research now bears it out.

Being Mindful of the Present Moment

By paying close attention to how we think about the present moment is the basis for a fulfilled, spiritual life. We call this mindfulness. By becoming simply interested in the nature of your own mind, and by paying attention to your experience in the present moment, you can investigate certain truths for yourself, without accepting religious dogma or metaphysical abstractions. And examining and studying our thoughts can be done without awkwardness or embarrassment (which cannot be said when chanting Lord Krishna while banging a drum, for example). 

The quality of your life, how you feel right now, in the present moment, is critically dependent upon what you're thinking. The boredom, distress, irritation, worry, or disappointment - your suffering or dissatisfaction - that you may be experiencing in your life right now exists because you think it does. As a man thinketh in his heart, so is he. 

You're Not Alone

You’re not. Jesus said, "I can of mine own self do nothing." That's true. Our natural predominant propensity is to go it alone, achieve our own goals by ourselves, with an "I alone can do" attitude. Our tendency is to trust in our own abilities and strengths. We believe and act as “self-sufficient" in achieving the goals we’ve set for ourselves, accomplishing them, and be happy and enjoy life.

Goals Do Not Bring Happiness

But none of those goals, and none of their promises of joy and happiness, will actually bring such things. Why? Because we don’t have the resources within ourselves to meet all of our needs. Alone we can do nothing.

Divine Resources

Only when we trust in the promises and resources of God, not in those of the world, can we truly find peace, love, joy, and satisfaction in our lives (2 Corinthians 3:5-6). Our sufficiency is not of ourselves; it is with God that we are self-sufficient. Physically, we have health, long life, shelter, and food. Mentally, we have peace, confidence, happiness. Spiritually, we have a new birth, holy spirit, spiritual rights, and manifestations. In all ways, in all situations, for all times, our believing action in God, when we walk in the spirit, we can tap into an inexhaustible supply, where every need is met. Our enjoyment in life is not based on human resources, but on divine ones.

A couple thousand years ago, Paul wrote, "God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus." What this means is that when our lives are based upon God, walking in the spirit, then there’s no limit to our power and resources. Alone, we can not supply all of our needs. We don’t have the resources within ourselves to meet all of our needs. If we did, everyone would be blessed, happy, and at peace. 

Seeing Divine Blessings

Regardless to how things may appear from the senses perspective, when I walk by the spirit I see divine blessings, which are eternal. The eternal things are the most important aspects in my life. The things that I see are temporary. 

In 2 Corinthians 4:18, we read, "While we look not at the things which are seen, but at the things which are not seen: for the things which are seen are temporal; but the things which are not seen are eternal." 
  • My friends may leave me,
  • my car might break down,
  • my house might leak water,
  • my clothes might be dirty,
  • my phone might not be the latest,
  • I might not have enough money,
  • I might have fat on my belly,
  • my football team might lose, and 
  • a million things could happen to me today, but I will not doubt, worry, or fear about it.
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By believing, by walking with the spirit, you don’t have to worry, doubt, or fear anything. I am satisfied. I’m not in a constant state of want or need. 
  • I don't have to be anxious or worried about anything, but in everything, in every circumstance and situation, by prayer with thanksgiving, I will continue to make my specific requests known to God. And the peace of God, that peace which reassures the heart, that peace which transcends all understanding, that peace which stands guard over my heart and mind is mine (Phil 4:6-7).
  • I’m happy, fulfilled, peaceful with what I am and with what I have. I am content.
  • I don't speak from any personal need, for I have learned to be content and self-sufficient with God, satisfied to the point where I am not disturbed or uneasy regardless of my circumstances. 
  • I know how to get along and live humbly in difficult times, and I also know how to enjoy abundance and live in prosperity.
  • In any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of facing life, whether well-fed or going hungry, whether having an abundance or being in need. 

How?

I can do all things through Spirit that strengthens and empowers me.

I am ready for anything and equal to anything through the Spirit that infuses me with inner strength and confident peace (Phil 4:11-13).

 
Summary

I encourage you to be more mindful about your thoughts, which are the invisible boundaries that prevent you from enjoying the present moment regardless of the situation you're in, and understand how your believing action in God brings joy, peace and love in your life.

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