I think about 85% of people, men and women, heterosexual or homosexual have either a nature (physically, mentally, sexually) that is more masculine than feminine or more feminine than masculine. Most people have a certain essence in their being.
Do you like to watch football and boxing? Or do you prefer love stories and dramas? Can you kill a spider? Or do you prefer to ask someone else to do it for you? Or maybe you enjoy doing both.
Would you rather have your sexual partner stronger than you? Or would you rather be the one who lovingly ravishes? Do you want to be swept off your feet? Or do you want to be the knight in shining armor? Or maybe you're turned on by both.
For most people, they would prefer to be either the initiator in a healthy sexual relationship or the receiver, the ravisher or the ravishee. Sexual polarity is important in their relationship. About 15% are neutral and have a balanced nature about themselves and sexual polarity is not that important to their loving relationship.
Either way, if you want a good, healthy relationship (physically, mentally, and spiritually), you ought to know your sexual nature. Are you more masculine, more feminine, or are you neutral? Figure that out. It shouldn't be too difficult. And then live true to your nature.
To thine own self be true.
If you have a masculine nature, a manly sexual essence, then you're likely driven by a mission in life. You feel you're living to the fullest and sense a deep purpose for living. Deep down, you're happy when you're focused and directed toward your goal and mission in life. And if you don't have direction in life, you've lost your job for example, then you feel empty and uncomfortable.
If you have a more feminine nature, a womanly sexual essence, then you're likely successful in life because you're core is filled and flowing with love, love from your partner and love from your family. You're intimate relationships are at your core in life and you're moved to improve those relationships and bonds of love and intimacy. And if you don't have a loving relationship with a partner or with your core friends, then you feel empty and uncomfortable.
The masculine tends to be driven by a mission, and the feminine tends to be motivated by the creation of love. Which one are you?