Do you give it all you got?
Do you give everything you have to your woman? Do you give everything you have to the world? Are you giving everything you got -- to both? Most men do not.
Most men do not fulfill their deepest desire in life or love. Most men enjoy making a little money, buying a nice car, watching some football, grilling and drinking a cold beer, and making love here and there. They may volunteer, donate to a good cause, and spend time with the kids. That's all nice and good. But there's certainly more to life than the freedom to enjoy doing those things. There's more.
You may sense a desire to go beyond who you are, to reach for something else, to break free of constraints, fear, and loneliness. You may feel there's still ground to break, a whole world to see, and true pleasures and freedoms to enjoy.
When a man loves a woman, he gives himself to her. Just like he does to the world. He penetrates and gives all he's got. But many men hold back. They hold back in fear. Fear in feeling true pleasure and freedom. A man must be willing to give himself to his woman and the world with his true self, with everything he's got. They each (woman and world) deserve it from him.
Don't be mediocre. Don't poke your woman and the world in an ordinary, middling kind of way. You may have man-friends who make enough money "to get by," they earn a "decent" living, they "get enough" lovin', they "do enough" to contribute to society. They're lives are not a total waste.
Well, don't be like them. Don't be mediocre. Don't play it safe. I encourage you to use everything you've got. Penetrate your woman. Penetrate the world. In the most deepest sense. With all your energy, love, truth, and desire. Give of yourself. Share your talent, your genius, your heart. You're on this Earth for a reason. So, what is it? And do it. Give it. Release. Be open to your woman and to the world. Don't be limp. Be strong, firm, and passionate.
Don't hold back your energy. Don't hold back your passion. Be carnal. Don't fiddle and dink around with your woman or the world. Engage them. Embrace them. Ravish your woman. Act like you can't get enough out of her, and, likewise, you can't get enough out of life. Press yourself into your relationship with your woman. Push yourself into the world. And give to both everything you are.
There are many similarities between your woman and the world. Both require you to commit, enter, and fully engage. Intercourse with your woman and with your world are similar, where each requires you to fully commit, be excited, totally engage, and willing to give everything you've got to the moment.
You can't cheat on either. Don't get distracted. Don't waste each other's time. Even if at one moment things are going great, and the next moment everything changes. C'est la vie.
Go all the way with each other. Don't yield your desire. Don't hold back your love or your heart. Hold nothing back.
This is the way of the king.
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