You need to hang out with other dudes. It is written that just as iron sharpeneth iron, so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.
Once a month, get together with your man friends. Discuss what's going on in life. Talk about what's going well and not so well. Get things off your chest. Share.
Your friends should be strong enough to listen to you, question you, and challenge any mediocrity of yours. Good honesty is often needed in an exchange between close man friends.
If you're looking for a support group, you may have unresolved issues with your mommy. Call her. If you want to grow as a man, and mature fully, then you'll want to hang out with some of your friends who provide and guide your masculine force in your life.
But make sure your friends are living life fully and with lots of energy, force, and heart. Hanging out with other kings, or kings in the making, can provide you with valuable insight and truth. There's nothing as valuable as a friend who can shed light on things.
Tips for Men to Be Better Men, Wonderful Husbands, and Loving Fathers